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      <image:title>BLOG - Signs of an Incompetent Cervix Every Woman Should Know - Pregnancy is often described as a joyful journey, but for some women it can also carry unexpected challenges. One condition that many women have never heard of until it affects them personally is incompetent cervix, also called cervical insufficiency.</image:title>
      <image:caption>An incompetent cervix occurs when the cervix begins to shorten, open, or dilate too early during pregnancy without contractions or labor. This usually happens during the second trimester and can lead to premature birth or pregnancy loss if not detected in time. Many women, including myself, had never heard of this condition until it changed our lives. Understanding the signs and risk factors can help women advocate for themselves and seek medical care sooner.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Signs of an Incompetent Cervix Every Woman Should Know - Pregnancy loss can be devastating, and many women wish they had known the warning signs sooner. If something feels unusual during pregnancy, it’s always okay to speak up and ask questions. Your voice and your intuition matter.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Please advocate for yourself if you feel like something is off. You know your body better than anyone. Don’t be afraid to speak up, ask questions, or request additional care if something doesn’t feel right. It is okay to ask your doctor for reassurance, monitoring, or even an ultrasound if you need peace of mind. Sometimes early detection and attention can make all the difference. Trust your instincts and never feel like you are being “too cautious.” Your concerns deserve to be heard. For women who have experienced pregnancy loss due to cervical insufficiency, know that you are not alone. Many families are walking this road and finding hope through community, advocacy, and support. Awareness is one of the most powerful tools we have. The more women understand conditions like incompetent cervix, the more lives we can protect and the more families we can support on their journey to motherhood.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Healing Through Beekeeping  - Honey bees truly are amazing beings. They survive and communicate through pheromones released by their queen, which help guide the entire colony. The hive works together in harmony, responding to signals that keep the colony organized, protected, and thriving.</image:title>
      <image:caption>One of the most fascinating things about bees is that almost the entire workforce is female. The worker bees—the ones gathering nectar, building comb, protecting the hive, and caring for the young—are all female. Watching them reminds me of the incredible strength women carry. Women nurture, build, protect, and sustain life in ways that are often unseen but deeply powerful. Sometimes I bring my children with me when I check the hive. Watching them put on their tiny bee suits and stand near the colony fills my heart with gratitude. Bees have become part of our family rhythm—something that connects us to nature, patience, and the beauty of creation. For me, beekeeping has also been a reminder of God’s incredible design. Something so small plays such an important role in sustaining life on this planet. Bees pollinate flowers, help crops grow, and produce honey that nourishes us. There is intention in every part of their work.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Six Years of Our Rainbow: Marae Turns 6 - I cannot believe how fast time flies.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Six years ago, I was lying on the operating table in the operating room, so still, so quiet, so overwhelmed. I remember staring at the ceiling lights, barely blinking, trying to steady my breathing. It felt surreal. After everything we had been through… I still couldn’t believe I was finally about to have a healthy, full-term baby. After experiencing two pregnancy losses in 2017 and 2018, joy felt fragile. Hope felt scary. Even happiness felt like something I had to hold gently, as if it could slip away at any moment. And then it happened. I remember my husband yelling, “It’s a, it’s a GIRL!” once the doctors uncovered her. That moment. That sound. That declaration. It was the most powerful feeling I’ve ever experienced. I had finally done it.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Six Years of Our Rainbow: Marae Turns 6 - Six years of her laughter filling our home. Six years of her bright ideas and even brighter personality. Six years of watching her step into who God created her to be.</image:title>
      <image:caption>She is smart. She is intelligent. She is funny. She is incredibly gifted in so many ways. She carries a light that cannot be dimmed. Sometimes I look at her and still see that tiny baby being lifted above the curtain in the OR. And sometimes I see the young girl she is becoming, confident, kind, curious, bold. She doesn’t fully understand yet what her life represents in our story. But one day she will. She is proof that grief and joy can coexist. She is proof that God restores. She is proof that storms do not last forever.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This set is perfect for: A mother walking through pregnancy loss A woman struggling with infertility A friend who needs encouragement A sister navigating grief A wife holding onto faith Or even yourself Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say to someone is: “I see you. I love you. I’m praying for you.” This gift set helps you say that beautifully.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - A Decade of Us - This year, we celebrated 10 years of marriage. A whole decade. Ten years of choosing each other. Ten years of growth. Ten years of laughter, tears, prayers, rebuilding, dreaming, and becoming.</image:title>
      <image:caption>When I think back to the very beginning, from the moment we met, what stands out the most is our friendship. Before anything else, we were friends. Real friends. The kind that could talk about everything and nothing for hours. The kind that felt safe. The kind that felt like home. And somehow, through every season life has brought us, that friendship has remained the foundation.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - A Decade of Us - Ecclesiastes 4:12 says, “A cord of three strands is not easily broken.” And that has truly been our testimony. It hasn’t just been me and him, it’s been us and God.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Over these 10 years, we’ve also been blessed with three beautiful children. Three little personalities that reflect pieces of both of us. Watching him be a father has been one of the greatest joys of my life. The way he protects. The way he leads. The way he plays. The way he loves. Our children are a living testament of what God can restore, redeem, and rebuild. This year, we decided to celebrate our anniversary in Napa. Just us. A kids-free trip. And let me tell you, we soaked up every single experience. The slow mornings. The vineyard views. The deep conversations over wine. The laughter. The quiet moments. The intentional time. It wasn’t just a trip. It was a reset. A reminder. A celebration. In the busyness of parenting, building businesses, homeschooling, traveling, and life in general, it felt so good to pause and just be husband and wife. Not mom and dad. Not business partners. Not content creators. Just two people who fell in love and are still choosing each other.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-02-06</lastmod>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Million Turns Two  - Today, our youngest son, Million, turned two years old—and what a sweet, beautiful day it was.</image:title>
      <image:caption>We kept things super chill, just the way we like it. We spent the day with my mother-in-law and our little nieces and nephew, soaking up quality family time. There was a small birthday cake, a bounce house, pizza for dinner, and so much laughter. A YouTube video is coming soon, but honestly, the memories we made today are already more than enough.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Million Turns Two  - HAPPY BIRTHDAY MILLION!</image:title>
      <image:caption>I’m just so thankful for my little family. We’ve been trying to have another baby, but it’s been taking a while to get pregnant. And with every month that passes, I find myself thinking about all the things I wish I would have done when I was pregnant with Million. Because truthfully… he could have been our last miracle. That thought humbles me. So we’re praying—faithfully and patiently—that God will bless us with at least one more. Until then, we hold tight to moments like today. Ordinary. Joyful. Full of love. The kind of days that remind me just how blessed we already are.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>There are moments in life that feel almost unreal—like you’re standing in the middle of a dream you never even knew to pray for. Today is one of those moments for me. After five years of writing, revising, praying, crying, pausing, starting again, and doing deep self-reflection, my book is finally complete—and it is now available to purchase. Even typing those words feels surreal. This book took time. It took tears. It took courage. And it took obedience. Over the last five years, I poured my heart into these pages, revisiting some of the most tender and painful moments of my life. My book tells my story—my experience and my journey through motherhood, including the loss of my two babies in the second trimester. It shares the grief, the questions, the moments of silence, and the moments where faith was the only thing holding me together. It also tells the story of how my husband and I made it through—how our faith in God, combined with an unwavering support system, carried us when we felt like we had nothing left to give. This book is not just about loss; it is about endurance, love, marriage, and hope when the outcome isn’t what you prayed for.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - Five Years, Many Tears, One Finished Promise - Tears of JOY</image:title>
      <image:caption>I am deeply thankful for every person in our circle who encouraged me to keep going—especially on the days when it felt easier to stop. Thank you to those who checked in on me consistently, who reminded me that my story mattered, and who believed in this book even when I struggled to believe in myself. This book exists because of love. Because of community. Because of faith. And because God can bring purpose out of pain. I am beyond grateful—grateful to God, grateful to my husband, grateful to our village, and grateful to every reader who will find comfort, understanding, or hope within these pages. I am officially a published author, and that still feels hard to say out loud. You can now purchase my book in softcover and hardcover editions. All purchasing information can be found here on my blog under the “My Book” section. Thank you for walking this journey with me. This is only the beginning. Stay tuned for more information on my first book signing.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Your life, your fight, and your love will always remain.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - New Book Update: Incompetent but Hopeful  - Incompetent but Hopeful is moving very close to print.</image:title>
      <image:caption>This phase feels especially sacred. The cover is the very first thing you see, and I want it to reflect the heart of the story inside—gentle, honest, faith-filled, and hopeful. Every color, texture, and detail is being chosen with intention. This book carries stories of loss, waiting, healing, and God’s faithfulness, and the cover matters because it sets the tone for all of it. Once the cover is finalized, the next step is printing—something that still feels surreal to say out loud. What began as obedience and quiet writing moments is becoming a tangible book that will soon be held, read, and hopefully used as a place of comfort for women walking through grief and longing. I used to believe productivity was proof of purpose. I don’t believe that anymore. Some seasons require slowness. Some seasons require listening more than producing. As I continued writing, I realized God was still doing work in me, not just through me. And I didn’t want to publish a version of this book that skipped the healing just to meet a timeline.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Grief isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s the ache that shows up at the grocery store, in the calendar reminder that never got deleted, or in the empty space where a baby should have been. It’s in the moments no one prepares you for, the ordinary ones that suddenly feel unbearable. This blog is meant to give language to those moments and to remind you that you are not failing God just because you still feel them. One day after losing Baby Goodwin, our first son, I was leaving the grocery store, loading bags into my car. As I shut the trunk, I heard laughter behind me. It was a mother packing her newborn baby and her two other small children into the car. Without warning, my heart sank. Instantly, I wished it were me, strapping my baby into his car seat, adjusting the mirror, hearing his little sounds fill the car. I desperately wanted to be pregnant again. In that moment, sadness washed over me, followed quickly by anger. Angry at my body all over again. How could my body fail me like this? I couldn’t help but wrestle with the thoughts that so many women silently carry. The Bible tells us to be fruitful. We’re taught that if we are faithful, we won’t have to endure things like miscarriage. So why me? Why was this my story?</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - When the Holidays Hurt: Holding Space for Parents Who Lost a Baby - Why Hopeful Heart Exists</image:title>
      <image:caption>Those experiences are the reason The Goodwin Family Project’s Hopeful Heart Initiative exists. The Hopeful Heart Initiative was created because no mother should ever have to come home empty-handed and then be burdened with the cost of goodbye. No family should be forced to choose between honoring their baby and surviving financially. No parent should have to navigate burial or cremation arrangements while their heart is shattered. Pregnancy and infant loss already take so much. Adding financial strain on top of grief is unnecessary and cruel. Through Hopeful Heart, we help cover burial and cremation services for families who have experienced pregnancy loss, stillbirth, or infant loss. We step in during one of the most vulnerable moments of a family’s life so they don’t have to face it alone. This initiative is not about charity. It is about dignity. It is about compassion. It is about ensuring that every baby is honored, and every parent is supported.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - When the Holidays Hurt: Holding Space for Parents Who Lost a Baby - A Season to Give, A Season to Hold Space</image:title>
      <image:caption>If you are reading this and you have never experienced pregnancy or infant loss, I ask you to pause for a moment and imagine it. Imagine expecting a baby, then leaving the hospital without one. Imagine the holidays arriving anyway. Imagine being handed a bill when all you want is to grieve. This holiday season, you have the opportunity to be part of something meaningful.</image:caption>
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